So, this my experience with Troy Dizon

Background: I am 24 years old and until last month I had never even kissed a girl. Growing up I never had any girlfriends. In fact, my friends would try to hook me up and the girls would reveal to them that I was repulsive. However, there were a few times when an occasional girl hit on me, but I was so socially stupid I couldn’t do anything about it. So, I went through jr. high, high school, and my first years of college with no girlfriend(s) and an ever decreasing number and quality of friends. Even to my family I seemed a lost cause. Then, about 2 years ago, I found the community while randomly surfing the internet. Like most people, I started with DYD. Since I didn’t know ANYTHING about socializing in general, much less women, I thought everything D.D.A. said was unquestionably true. So, I went out to the local grocery stores and busted out a couple of CNF lines fully confident they would work and for the first time in my life what came out of my mouth actually made women laugh and want to talk to me more. So, I figured the community was the real deal. I studied DYD religiously and started doing more approaches and gaining confidence. However, my success didn’t last long. My CNF and DYD teachings began pissing off everyone I came in contact with. So, I started reading MM, RSD, Pick Up 101, but still no improvement (I don’t blame them I probably wasn’t executing their teachings correctly).

Discovering Troy: Awaiting more success, I devoured the ebooks and read different seduction blogs by the end of the next week, studying and preplanning day and night. Ironically, as with my experience with DYD, everything went down hill from there. Unknowingly, I started sounding very mechanical, fake, and my calibration sunk to very low levels. However, from my past success with the method, I knew it was just me that was not executing it correctly. So a little over ½ a year later, I talked to Troy and signed up for private instruction with him. Logistics at the time did not let me sign up for the 3 day boot camp, as did some beliefs I had, so I asked Troy to come to my town (I was to pay his lodging, travel, and food expenses), which was only 3 hours away from where he lives. He agreed, which surprised me because I had never heard of a coach who did so much to help out a client. So, that said a lot about what type of guy he is. The guy was so energetic, charismatic, and just pumped me with enthusiasm. He gave me a couple of free phone coaching sessions and preps before the big day. Then it happened, I met them both and got to see the his concepts fleshed out: the powerful vibe, leading, presence, etc. I’d say the difference between reading the blogs and seeing this guy in person was the difference between night and day. I learned a ton by just watching how he carried himself, how he treated me, how he talked, body language, etc. However, I am not sure if it was because of my stage fright or because I was a plain pussy, but whatever the reason, I ended up chickening out of most approaches and had him do almost all of them to demonstrate to me.

In essence, seeing Troy in action was watching a Picasso. The guy demonstrated solid game set after set. He singlehandedly completely took over all sets he approached and both girls and guys loved them. To this day I have not met anyone with the same or more charisma than Troy. Just about every person he and his entourage came in contact with melted before my eyes. It was like magic. From the first set they did I knew they were the real deal. So, I just watched and soaked in as much of their energy level, vibe, the way he interacted with people, and everything I could learn from him.

Admittedly, however, I was a bit disappointed. I knew I had learned a lot and that the knowledge and experience would one day at least leak into my game, but I was frustrated that that was all I got out of a boot camp that cost me nearly $2,000. So, after much thinking (little approaching) and frustration Troy called me up about a week later to see what was up with me. That surprised me in a good way. I thought he was like the rest of the marketers who just get your money and forget about you, but by freely phone coaching me that time, he proved otherwise. He started picking my brain more and role playing with me to figure out what was so wrong with me. Within that session, he started really finding my main sticking points. Up until then he had given me 3 free phone coaching sessions so I signed up for a fourth. That one was the golden one. We role played for like an hour an identified my main sticking points that were holding me back from success, mainly too much verbiage, playing too much by the rule book which prevented me from being in the moment and interpreting situations correctly, and not listening to people. That session, coupled with reading his blogs more closely resulted in a giant leap to success. I suddenly found myself being able to actually hold more interesting conversations with people and expressing my self better. That was such a relief – to finally be able to talk to people for more than 5 minutes (lol). However, as much of a break through as that was, I still knew I was missing something. I knew I did not fully understand the stuff Troy taught me since day one, but I couldn’t figure out what. With the hunger to succeed, trying to find clarity, Troy’s phone coaching and actually implementing the game plan we had talked about, my success with people then sky rocketed to levels I couldn’t previously imagine I would ever reach. I started reading people’s social situation, meaning behind their words, voice tonality, facial expressions, body language, etc. and started having massive success with people in general. From that listening skill, I developed super charged conversations that instantly connected me to people. All these amazing social skills I didn’t even previously know I had in me came out of me without my consent. For the first time ever, I started having conversations where I didn’t even have to worry about running out of things to say and I experienced what real genuine interest, emotional connections, confidence, leading, escalation, and everything else Troy teaches really is. So, since then my task has been to just practice and hone those skills more. Right now I have 2 girlfriends but meet new women and friends all the time. It has gotten to the point where I worry more about how to get rid of extra people in my life and keep only the best than about getting. I literally had and have to get rid of women and guy friends all the time because I don’t have time for all of them!

Mainly that is my experience with Troy, but these are some of the main lessons I want you to get out of it:

Strict adherence to ebooks and rules can be one of the main obstacles to one’s social skills. They will prevent you from being in the moment and will not allow you to calibrate your unique self and the unique situations you will always find your self in.