Hi guys!!, nuclear here also known as kexus in singapore lair back then.
I just came back from st.james and did skillsets.. i just want to share with you my experience. I am like that , i just did finish my skype call #2 and went out immediately the next night to solid it in.
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Before clubbing
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1) Pre-Party
Bring party to the party.. you got to have a good mood or festive mood (as troy would say) before you go in. If not you are just a value sucker.. which nobody appreciate.
2) Good dressing , archetype..
3) value giving mentality
I dont have a name for it , but before i went in the club i affirm to myself what value i can give. So i dont come in trying to suck value . NO that's desperation, i am a cool guy so i am here to give everyone a good time.
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In the club
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1) los
I did this by walking very slowly calibrated, like a mafia kinda of thing. Like i am the owner, i know people are looking at me and i want them to think in their head, hmm.. this guy is definetly top 1 % when i walked around looking at which girl is roughly interested in me , i know.. and i make sure when i dance i am somewhere they can see clearly.. Abusing the LAW OF FREQUENCY.
ACtually i didnt wanna put stories inside , wanna deliver it in bullet point but oi believe people want to be entertained so i just add in stuff.. (kinda lazy..)
SO i los right? after walking the whole room once , quick glance . i quickly when i dance went up the highest or whatever place i can get the most attention. i dance for a good 10 mins.. mixing slow and fast movement. like i dont go all hip hop , sometimes i slow it down a little bit when it's a sexy music so it looks damn good. A Good friend mr J , he shares with me that , and i comfirm it when i saw a hiphop battle with this group being good at fast and slow. Looks damn confident and calibrated like this guy.. he knows what to do , he knows how to own it.
So the only time i went down was MR J was coming so i went to fetch him. But i saw this gal (she's cute) came and approach me asking me to take care of her jug.
So i said "Why are you asking me this?"
she " i need to get something" (later in the night , it turns out she's alone)
So when she came back..
Me: Hey take care of my drink , i need to go get my friends, but i want to see you here. (Reason being excuse to see her again)
-gets MR J -
Me: Thank you , i want to dance with you, but i need to go find my friends now.. BUT WHEN I COME BACK, YOUR MINE. I DONT CARE IF YOU HAVE A BOYFRIEND OR NOT. (with a horny look) the i come back , your mine is said with a very..very slow seductive tone. then i return to normal when i continue the i dont care if your boyfriend with a dominating tone .. i using distillation or someshit c0c 2 girlfriend thing. (get your coc mother fuckers
she: I just got ditched
(reason why i put the boyfriend thing is #1 i know she likes me , why when she alone would approach me right
i got this vibe it's an excuse to get to know me
and i just want to convery my dominance)
So i went back to the 1 guy , 4 girls group which i made allies. I saw one of the taking pictures with the 3 of them and i know.. that when they do that, it's a good sign
me : Hey , you guys .. i take a picture for you
All: okay.
Done~ After picture taking
me : Hey (taking to the guy.. i believe in this , you get the guys to like you in the group you get the girls) I am first time in st.james , i dont know anyone.
He : okay come join us, hey you want a drink?
Chat .. chat .. chat...
Me : hey i like you man (i really do) but which gal is your gf? i dont want to piss you off or something
he : nah , you can get all of them. i am okay with it
me : O_O...
-Girls are like eye fucking me already so i smile back to all of them and went off-
high point anyway.. i decided to leave.. i know the guy will talk good stuff about me. So why disturb the process man.
So that's how i build groups friendship but i went off and came back of course i didnt stay there like needy motherfucker... it's my home base anyway. Always have a homebase.... NO AA anyway..
So back to the story.. when mr j came in , i took a drink ticket.. went back to the group
Me : Hey dude .. thanks for treating me drink. You know what i believe in? (vaccum 2 second) i believe in giving back , here (slap a drink ticket on his hands)
he : Surprised ... then =D
Me : so what you guys will be doing after this?
gal#1 + Him : Dancing
Me : okay cool , see you guys at the dance floor later..
So that's how i met the group. Anyway back to the gal with the jug story.
i went to get j .. went back to the group give the ticket.. they are not yet ready to go dancing so i went to the dance floor IN FRONT OF THE GAL. And dance i know she's like omg.. wtf?? , i purposely dont look at her (Skype call #2 eye contact law ask troy about it) but my wingman told me , she's just staring at me..
PERFECT A BARRIER
!! And guess what.. a lot of lame guys started bothering her.. so hmmmm
DD
i cant really remember when i went back and dance with her but i think she didnt want to get out of the table.. so i ditch her. One of my rule is ... if you dont dance on the dancefloor then fuck it. I dont want you.
(random incident)
then i got opened by girls (met her when i was going out)
Girl: Omg you danced up there
me: YEa.. ,
hugs my hand
she: hey let's go dancing
Me: nonono i need to go drink..
she : HELL NO!! I WANT YOU TO DANCE.
Me : i need a drink girl , if not i will dehydrate.. are you going to carry me if i dehydrate
?
She: Oh okay.. but please come back
Me : okay LOOK I PROMISE YOU -PAUSE.-.. I WILL COME BACK after i drink finish
She said this and did this infront of her bf.. and her group
Cool~ when i went back ,another new found base..
2) Making friends on the platform
FIrst thing i did , when the music is slow or soft normal when changing music where the high is gone.. and at the end it's all just slow.. you know.. i went around and said this
Hey kelvin.
They just tell me their name.. and i will normally chat up or i will say.. i like to make friends with people who dare to come up.
2A) i pulled people up, i saw some guys they dont dare to come up. Like my wingman MR D , so i pulled him up and i guess his platform virginity is mine to keep thank you
. Anyway i pulled people up as well and immediately i said kelvin, boom done. Of course i dont do this calibrated , i just see they are wanting to go up but afraid so i just help give a little push. Infact i made a friend there, and when the club ended , i went back to find him. OH fuck HIS SOCIAL CIRLCE WAS OMG HOT GALS. Crazy..
Basically my message is.. Let every one know you first , dont go approaching like a moron first thing you go in. Let everyone start to become used to your presence then it's easy because they know you. Dont be like the ghost in horror movies man, just appear out of no where. It's also a matter of conveyance too... non verbally.
So in the club first thing i look for a place or things that make me stand out and go for it. woo~
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After party
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I was going to play a long term game.
So i make friends with gatekeepers. And one bartender who is really bored. how i met him was like this.
I went in the bar or something , kinda thirsty.. i saw this bar has very few people and the bartender his name is S , was kinda bored.. so i STATE THE OBIVIOUS
Me : Sian ah? (singapore slang for bored?)
him : YEA
mutal agreement..
Me : i noticed here there's very little people
him : Yup
Me : normally they seem to get only plain water actually i want one too
him : haha okay
Me : What's your name
See it's solid i feel.
Then i go into my core values
Me : hey thanks for the drink , you know what ..thanks for the water.. how do i give you value in return . see i am not the sucking guy who keep wanting things, i believe in giving back. What about gals
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He : Hahaha my arse man (he got a little gangster attitude so it's fun) i got a gf
ME : oh .. so blah blah blah~ (basically share what's going on inside , he's bored right?)
Chats.. for a while
me: hey man i got to go back.
So basically i went back in and out.. whenever i got thirsty and when i drink water.. i tell him about my adventures inside , so he's kinda looking forward to meet me.
After the party i went back to say bye and get his face book.. And he said..
Him : You coming back tml?
What a foreshadow
me: Nah.. maybe next week or something.
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Aftermaths
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Guys here's my game plan... i am going to find a base .. actually i am more attica as my base.. but when i went st.james all went good man. So i want to go there meet regulars and bartenders and stuff. Giving them value and state what the fuck i want from them. I find that most people they dont give me what i want is because i didnt ask for it.
Yes i didnt get a close, but i am not a beginner man. I want to build reputation there, so it's very easy everytime i go in.
Just imagine , your a regular there.. the bouncers know you, the bartender knows you some regular knows you.. Then when you first come in , some gal or guy that last few times u came , felt your damn cool and said HEY -insert name-
So it's like IN DA CLUB man , your king there gals will expect you to game them.. Just show a dimension of a SEXUAL But cool player.. Damn game over.
I find that players have bad reputation that they fuck and throw (kinda like sucking value dry) but not this cool motherfucker
I think the reason why my game went up is because i CHOOSE (powerful word) to take the risk and merge my worlds together. Previously i was living.. DAY TIME normal fun dude... NIGHT TIME player.. TOugh man , i went approaching and feared success because i am afraid they will tell my day times friends and my world will go KABOOM... But it was the only thing stopping me.. so i went fuck it.. i got my TDD FAMILY.. if i went thru hell then... i will continue until i get good.. but worse come to worse my tdd family will love me man. and my game just went kabooms!!
Oh.. remember to take pictures.. pictures convery 10000000000000000 words..
SO BUILD RELATIONS SHIP WITH YOUR TDD FAMILY MAN
Random shit-
i was rereading this.. and i remembered something i found out in the clubs.
It's voice project is a must , FUCKING SHOUT AT THEIR FACE. especially gatekeepers like this bartender. I noticed something , like sometimes i talk he cant hear... Because he's just too used to the sound in the club. ANYWAY, to do this.. try to say the essence if you choose to talk.. LIKE SAY AS LITTLE WORDS AS POSSIBLE. SERIOUSLY NO ONE APPRECIATE YOU TALKING AN ESSAY INSIDE.
So it's short , sharp . And it's hard on my throat too
take care of your body man and it will take care of you.
Learn body language signs like Hi (for me it's like put my hand up?)
Bye ( wave a little.. ) THank you ( bow.)
I realised my game can go up . I saw a circle of guys and girls while in the platform , that's why it's a good thing
And saw them that they wont really friends they are also like me (kelvin style of pulling people in my world) they were pulling fun peopel in the circle and making them dance.
Ahh.. Now .. i saw something heartbreaking, you know i went there with 4 person man. Me .. Mr D (my wingman) , Mr W and his friend MR D#2.. so me and D team up and i wing him like crazy man. I saw mr w and D #2 walking towards the set..
And.. FIRST THING.. like first thing.. wAS OMG...!!!
This is going to be interesting..
So mr w and d i dunno what they do.. talking like chit chat , then ~boring moments~ Until i saw this.. Mr D#2 was bring a gal out to dance in the circle. using the hand > (which is the method i used when troy taught me before , about the hand and commitment when you stick out your hand and put 100% commitment .. she dont see u as a male but a man ask troy about it good stuff And i abuse it like crazy
)and the gal was like Hmm at first 3 sec.. then
because he didnt know what the fuck to lead it. Game plan people..so as the kind kelvin... i step down the platform and went SWAGGERING inside.. I said "Derrick.. this is how you do it ..
I went and spin the girl , then dance quite close , then move back and she was grinding on me.. -The group went crazy~-
You know what? the next part pissed me off. I helped him to make him look good. Bring down my fucking value to show him something . I saw him talking to another gal. Pissed man , i seriously wanna fuck him till he's screwed.
But here's another thing i didnt do.. i just went up to my platform.. i didnt ..when finished my little dance stuff , bow to the gal saying thanks. This is more gentleman , kelvin style
i am a romance kinda of guy actually.
Actually to prove i got a game plan , actually after my little dance stuff , if the fucker was looking and learning. I would bow~ and whisper to the gal.. Time to continue. Then Tap him on the shoulders like hmm good job. And go up the platform. Creditbility establish, done. Fucker needs some tdd training.
Anyway i think the next step for me is actually to really care about the gal i am with. Sometime i fuck care without bowing and i just dont feel good. Not from a weakness point but i feel like.. when i go there , i am such a value giver.. That fuck i want her to receive my gift man.I really hate leaving things undone.
And take photos.. If i want to show troy the stuff.. i dont believe in typing. This all REAL ALL happened people. but you cant fight with evidence. That's for to give to the skeptics as A valentine gift. .Next time troy
Nuclear out
