a friend of a friend found my number off facebook and had been texting for weeks about getting together. i finally decided to come visit her at work a few days ago. she was bartending. and there goes the beginning of [mutually agreeing] to meet up.

while i was there, i was writing notes on receipt paper on my nightly schedule... just as i do with my journal. i lost it so far and might have to buy a new one. ANYWAY, of my nightly outings, at least 5 of them are jazz and music spots... none of them for salsa or bachata! it's no wonder i'm not learning and retaining dance as quickly. either way, this gave her a roadmap on where to find me [foreshadowing]. all i did was share my macro plans and give her options which are all win-win.

so last night, lo and behold, she asks me what jazz/salsa clubs i was gonna hit up. i was gonna stay in this time except for going out to look for my credit card. she came and left her car at my place, and we went out for the retarded mutual activity of finding my lost credit card!

when we got to the bar i thought it might be at, it wasn't there. so i got us drinks in cash. i found a GIGANTIC guitar pick in my wallet and placed it in her hand, and she says "it's so huge i don't know what to do with it!" me: "that's what she said... " and then on goes a thread of innuendo after innuendo wondering if she was talking about the "pick" or my "dick" and violating me in various ways. [insinuation... DUH!] i seriously did not plan on that happening, nor did i plant that in my wallet for that purpose. i just thought it'd be funny to show her, and it just so happened that sexuality went through the roof!

i put my beanie on her head, pulled it all the way down so she looked goofy. more laughs, hugs and good times... till i gave her a big hug to whisper in her ear, her head was on my shoulder, and her lips were right there... and there ya go. after that first kiss there wasn't much talking, but lots of intense touching underneath the the bar. me: "ya wanna get outta here?" her: "yes."

we stopped to make out on the way back to my car and hand-flirted all the way back to my place. upping the intensity and snapping out of it just a little every now and then like Aaron taught me. we went through 3 condoms. handjob driving is fun! but money shot to her face neck and chest in the morning is waaay better...

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keys: always keeping the 3 basic steps (mutual agreement, insinuation, foreshadowing) in the back of my mind and presenting them naturally throughout the interaction. never forceful or imposing. always gentle and going with the flow. therefore: always easy for her to follow and enjoy herself.

oh yeah... and being sick is no longer an excuse! go for it anyway

happy new years fellas

Nice Job Mofo. 3 condoms? Talk about being backed up.

actually after the 2nd one i thought that's all i had left, but after fooling around in the morning i decided to take another look and found one more she was so happy

one of my favorite moments: she was playing and being rough with my pick. me: "so what you're just gonna play with it like that? BE GENTLE it's fragile!" she smiles and laughs a little. me: "but not THAT fragile. " quiet, intense smiles...

AND... i'm in the green! nice

lol well done on the green Teddie and the face neck and chest shot. I reckon you deserve it, you done been working hard for a while now I'm glad your getting results.

Reading these stories make me GREEN with envy!

Awesome story Teddie, I'm excited to hear about how you're living such a successful and fun life! And as I always say, I hope your evening was as good as mine, I think I successfully pried a girl away from her BOREfriend... we'll see what happens tomorrow when we go see the movie I foreshadowed

Phil my evening was supposed to be full of ZZZs coz i'm sick and i wanna rest up so i'm ready for Tuesday night when i go out with this hot waitress i met over a week ago [through the power of LOS!!!]. i invited her out Wednesday night but she couldn't make it. next thing ya know SHE's foreshadowing ideas for stuff we could do the next week!

that was a big LIGHT BULB for me: when she starts to HELP making plans to get together it's SO ON! it also doesn't hurt when just the phone call ITSELF was tons of fun, and you can "hear" her blushing on the phone coz you reveal that you came by work one day just to see HER and the cute quirky things she does. keyword, her saying: "awwwwwwwww!!!!!!!! " i love that sound

but instead of catching Zs i gotta huge boner watching some TV show with a hot cop, so i called the original girl from this post and fucked her again (3rd night in a row). sober, not-in-a-car sex is SO MUCH better! and this time i established that this is between me and her and nobody else, and she gets it. anyway... idunno how fast i'll recover but either way, whatever happens, Tuesday is gonna be a BLAST!!!!!

fuckit. EVERY DAY should be a blast!