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FR: First time clubbing after PURENIGHT
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PostPosted: Sat Sep 05, 2009 7:02 am 
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Alright guys, some important things I want to point out are, Archetype, Having a crew, great female allies, and some KEY DANCEFLOOR SHIT!

So I went clubbing tonight. The group I went with had 3 guys (me, roommate, and friend), and 5 girls (3 allies, and 2 girls I didn't know). The guys you roll with DO MATTER, I had some good characters (NOT PUAs). The gameplan was to pre-game at the allies place, and then we all roll out to the club together. If there's one benefit of having an archetype down, it's that it makes other peoples first impression of you so much better. I had my look DOWN, I was wearing stuff I bought at Nordstrom (yeah it's expensive, but having at least 1 complete set of going out gear helps A TON... conveyance remember?).

back to first impressions, I walk in to my allies place with the guys, and hell yeah they noticed my ass. I acted as I normally did with my friends, just shooting the shit and talking mundane, my look is already conveying sexy so it's good to contrast that with mundane (where you from, who my friends are, the Mint Chocolate alcohol I brought over, etc). We headed out to the club, it starts out regular, I got a couple of drinks and just soaked it all in.

*tip* know the culture of the venue you're trying to run, ie the music they play in a club if you want to get good at clubs. For me, this was seriously a compromise, because I listen to a lot of J-music (with a fun vibe, but usually not sexual, like English hip-hop songs), but I decided that I want to conquer the scene over in the States (since I'm here now), and yes, I got a whole new playlist running through my ipod, and even changed my general archetype (from what worked in Japan, to what works in the states).

My group formed a circle and were all dancing, I joined in and danced, having a good time and whatnot. Knowing the words to a certain song is like one of the easiest ways to dance with a girl, like Sean Kingston's Take You There. Just sing it to her and dance, easy, and yes I did that.

Most of the night I was just dancing with my friends, having fun. Didn't escalate it. Also, whenever a creeper guy would roll in and "stay in set" aka needy as fuck aka moron, I would just yin-yang the girls out.

After a while, I see the girl I didn't know personally in our group, dancing by herself, while everyone else was dancing with someone. I took that opportunity and danced with her. Some hot songs came on and I did the dance game stuff that I learned at Purenight (rubber band, yin yang, grinding, MONEY MAKERS). By now we're up close on eachother, and I KNEW FROM EXPERIENCE if I didn't direct the vibe to a sexual one this wouldn't go anywhere. So I wanted to go from a Fun vibe to a Sexual one.

How did I do that? by SLOWING IT(the pace) THE HELL DOWN. I gave out some more money makers, our faces brushed, I breathed in her ear, and the next thing I know we're making out. Another huge tip, Don't Milk It. I never made those makeouts too long, just till it got good then I pulled back. Building tension is a good thing. When the song ended, she took my hand and LED ME to another part of the club, and then we had an INTENSE MAKEOUT. When it got good, I pulled back again, told her I need a drink, and I led her to the bar to get a bottle of water. After I get the water we drink some, then MICHAEL JACKSON (ABC) COMES ON (Yeah Mr.A4 and Hsong!), we dance and makeout some more, and when I pulled back her reaction was great. I pulled my face back, she wanted to kiss more, so she was coming in, and her reaction was like i just slapped a kids hand for trying to take a cookie from the cookie jar without permission. I smirked lol.

She drove with her friend, so her logistics didn't permit the pull. She's in the pipeline.

A few things: This happens fast, not linear AT ALL (I wasn't thinking in steps), with dancing, make sure you're able to change the vibe to AMP UP SEXUAL (bring her in and SLOW IT DOWN).


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