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Wow Marinetti I am really humbled for this, because I think you really have a firm grip in what you teach and say in TDD. By no means I intend in my journey to compete or be the super womanizer, I want to become the 24/7 attractive man, the one that goes out and chooses to share his life and create relationships with good people & the kind of girl that he actually likes.

You are correct again, the micro has definitely work for me so well that is stupid, the results I have had, its tiny crazy (I still have a lot to learn), girls want sex to and they want to give sex. I know I am in just the tip of the iceberg. My next step is to be with girls that are really attractive for me (in all aspects), and not get delusional or stupid, and just be me, a guy grounded in reality and its present.

All the Best
-Tomi

NITCH, its a Simple, but super Strong Concept that will be the key to the Start of my Success.

But as easy as it sounds, I don't have clue of where to start, I like many things (Jujitsu, Nature, Literature...) and in the Social Circules of my Uni. I stand out (maybe not in the best of way's) for been the little bit (or more?) "prepi", and for been physically a little more Healthy. I am a natural social, but I stop doing it in a large scale, because I felt that the more (random) people I knew the loner I felt.

I got to find my Base, my solid ground. Given that I am in a work out Regimen this next weeks, am going to use this opportunity to dedicate a solid 4 weeks of defining my NITCH. I guess in the end if I don't feel it after a while, I can always look again.

All the Best
-Tomi

I think you said it the best that when you do it at a large scale you felt lonelier by the higher number of random people you knew. Wow, you are really starting to get to the bottom of this and I am impressed you acknowledged that. Its funny how even when you're social the dilutent effect can still occur.

Niche's are places where you feel at home because you enjoy certain things about it - maybe the people, the energy, the hobbies, the social network, the same values, archetypes, expressions, etc.

I will tell you right now that all the traveling for me has made me "un-niche" myself from my local city. Its been the elusive obvious I've been trying to get back however because of all the things going on with TDD I haven't been able to. Luckily, a few nights out at the spot I've always wanted to conquer came easy in a couple of days. I had found my rhythm again locally and because of the influx of PI clients from San Antonio over the next month I intend to build another crew and dominate that spot. How can I describe that niche? Beautiful women, great music, flashy lights and a cat walk. Guys like Capo (our dance instructor) has been operating the salsa scene for years and every now and then I drop by and see em.

Other than that, as most people know I have set up a dungeon in my garage which is a work in progress - a boxing gym where my closest friends, past clients, and women i meet can enjoy having a workout with me. I plan to get a personal trainer certification and adequate boxing training to get into the niche of physical development someday - another niche.

I wish you luck on those 4 weeks.

Troy

Thanks Troy,
I get it little bit more. A place were you feel it, were you can mix. Its the awareness factor, what kind of people right know are mixing with me, and with what kind of people do I want to mix with, and do they hold up to my Core Values?

NITCH TRAINING: FROM 3-FEB-24, 2010

All the Best
-Tomi

NITCH TRAINING RESULTS:

Field Report:
In this lasts weeks, lots and lots of stuff has happened,even do I haven't have the time to really go out. In all, I have been to a 'Carne Vale' (a party of the senses), a Indi Rock Concert, a Sexy After Hours and I have learned that even do I like to have deep topic conversation, the group of people I want to attract is one with a more active and outgoing personalities.

*Carne Vale' (a party of the senses)
In feb 14 I got invited to go to a 'pagan sexual party'. It is not as exotic as it sounds. It was a party of the senses from a group of friends that live near the woods. It was kind of a hippie party were you eat fruit with chocolate and other people would paint your body. The crowd was extraordinary, people with a universal mix of views and beliefs. It wasn't exactly my Nitch, with some I had similar belief in nature, and I met great people how are very loving, but I need a more solid ground. People how are more clean, sexier and motivated. But still I learned a lot, and I took the chance to observe, something that I almost never do (am always in the middle of stuff) and saw that lots of girls out there are very very insecure of their bodies and how men look at them.

*Indi Rock Concert
A local Rock artist called Mima gave a concert in a friends Theater Club. Met this theater girl how was kind of 'kul' and I let her know that I was of interested, looking her in the eye, touching her neckless (physical contact), suggesting sexual topics. But she was too superficial (in the sense that she only kept a foot distant interaction). I knew she was interested in me but she was having conversation with other people. My friend call me out on been to aggressive or harsh, but in the end I really didn't give a Sht, girls use to do that kind of stuff to me before, possibly maybe because I have gotten use to 1NightS I didn't know how to play it properly, but for the most par t I didn't want to stand for that SHT. So I left casually, with my body to other endeavors and had a great time.
*Sexy After Hours
This place was called Lava, its super small, all in red lights and FULL of beautiful woman. I liked this place and what to continue going there and meeting new people.

In All: have conclude that even do I don't feel I have my Macro Nitch, I know I feel great with the people I train with, their awesome, and in a few local spots around my Univ. Will build from that.

All the Best
-Tomi