The TDD Dojo: Upstart Pre-requisites
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Troy
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Posted: Tue Feb 02, 2010 12:13 am |
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Joined: Fri Jan 23, 2009 3:36 pm Posts: 500
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Here are basic pre-requisites for being awarded the rank of Upstart in the TDD System
Core Values - being able to articulate your basic values and get there from surface level conversations via effective transitioning. Knowing yourself is the most important first step in TDD and is the biggest problem of chit chat masters and average guys.
Baseline Vibe - not being judgmental, no preassumptions, and just relying on your vibe (x = x) of being a cool, fun guy who is open to getting to know her.
Basic Game planning - Having a logistical game plan for dates, social gatherings and what not. Working your skills around your lifestyle, using Mutual activity and Credibility dates. Taking time out of your week to build your lifestyle.
Foreshadowing - Using the skill of leading her mind. Knowing to launch this immediately and set expectations to what's next.
Managing High Points - Leading or Leaving at a high point.
Physical Leading - Leading women around social venues, suggesting where to go instead of asking her. Bouncing from venue to venue or from room to room.
Sexual Insinuation and Vibe - Using nonverbal stare downs and sexual innuendo/lingo to set up the tone of the interaction.
Once Consistently Mastered AND Documented will any Alumni be eligible for the rank of Upstart in the TDD System.
_________________ "A young man comes to me with a spark of interest, I feed the spark and it becomes a flame, I feed the flame and it becomes a fire, I feed the fire and it becomes a roaring blaze"
"I think what I really am when it all comes down to it, is an investment banker. The person that comes to me is banking that their investment in me is correct."
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